What does being “classy” mean?

My parents bring up the term “class” fairly often. For example, they strongly disapprove of tattoos due to its “low-class” connotation. They say people who don’t study hard at school are not “high-class”. Class can mean many things, though. In one sense, it is a reflection of socioeconomic standing. In another, it is inherent quality of something, or someone. While these definitions can be correct in a general sense, and can be expounded on in separate posts, I personally believe class represents something that cannot be captured through the use of money or quality alone.

One can exude class without spending an exorbitant amount on oneself. After all, would anyone say “Jersey Shore” reality TV stars are classy even if they are wearing designer clothes and driving nice cars? Being classy is in a class of itself. It’s an elegance of carriage and an understated composure that people believe in. It’s humility without exaggeration or hunger for attention. It’s tasteful beauty without the garishness of excess and showboating. It’s living within one’s means, understanding when to indulge, and staying grounded to money. It’s the quiet assumption of leadership under dire circumstances. It’s the understanding of temperance and discipline. It’s knowing how to deal with people effortlessly and diplomatically.

To me, that is what being classy embodies. What does it really mean to you?